How can I improve my relationship with my mate? 3 simple questions.
We had Steve Shamblincome and talk to us. Steve was one of the pioneering members of the University of the Nations Counselling School, with Bruce Thompson.
But because of health issues, he was unable to dedicate himself, but since recently he has become more active in YWAM counselling ministry.
Steve came to us at YWAM and discussed with us about how to prevent unneeded couple counselling by following some basic but important principles with your spouse.
The world's (or Media) definition of love is sex. But the biblical definition of love is sacrifice, a choice (not based on touchy feeling, but choose to unconditionally), and action (what we do, not what we feel)
It basically comes down to asking yourself (spouse has to do it as well) these questions.
1. How am I sacrificing for my mate?
2. Three ways I am choosing for my mate's highest
3. Share with each other how you would liked to be loved.
Say... "This is how I want you to love me."
After you have your own answers, share this with your mate.
Steve promised your relationship with your mate will get better.
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by Richard Chun